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The top 4 mistakes to avoid during a Tennessee child custody case

When parents in Tennessee get divorced, many wish to share custody of their children as part of a joint custody arrangement. When parents share custody, both might spend substantial amounts of time with their children and make joint decisions with the other parent about them. Although this is considered the ideal arrangement for many parents following divorce, some threaten their ability to gain custody of their children by making several common mistakes.

1. Being unsupportive of the other parent

According to The Huffington Post, judges tend to look favorably upon those who show they support their children's relationship with the other parent. For this reason, parents who cannot control their anger and consistently denigrate their former spouse may be accused of interfering with parenting time and parental alienation. Parents who want to be awarded joint custody should make sure they show that their children's relationship with the other parent is valuable and encourage interaction.

2. Failing to be involved

Parents should strive to be a part of their children's lives if they wish to obtain shared custody following their divorce. Parents who do not, for example, take their children to activities, attend school conferences or take their children to the doctor may be at risk of not securing custody.

3. Lacking emotional control

Parents who wish to win custody of their children should do their best to constantly act with good judgement and self control. Those who cannot control their anger or regularly lose control in front of their neighbors, children's teachers, social workers or anyone else who might be involved in the child custody case may be at a disadvantage as the legal process continues.

4. Leaving behind harmful evidence

In child custody cases today, technology is often used to bring forth evidence that can harm a parent seeking custody in court. For example, this evidence can include text messages, emails, photos and statements from social media. Parents should be careful about how they communicate and who they vent to about the stresses of seeking child custody or going through the divorce process to preserve their image.

As parents in Tennessee embark on a child custody case, many worry that they will make mistakes like these and end up not being able to achieve a joint custody arrangement with their spouse. In this situation, parents can benefit from working with an attorney who can guide them as they seek custody of their children and provide them with helpful legal advice.

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